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For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 01:20
So for argument's sake, I'm gonna let you guys in on something I'm doing. On Saturday I'm having a (semi-large, approx 40 people) social at my place. We (the family) have been working on it for about a month, but it was completely my idea. So if you guys ever say I never tried anything with regards to being social, well, here it is. It's going to be interesting, I don't anticipate liking it much, I get very tense when other people are in our house (well, more tense than my standard). But yeah, it's going to be interesting for more reason than one, one reason will be as to a certain person shows up (yes Krunchy, I was crazy enough to invite her). Insert head smashing here.
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Re: For Your Information
by A-BIack_Man 2010-12-17, 01:38
are you going to have the thing we call "fun?"
really though you should, dont be stressing over it.
really though you should, dont be stressing over it.
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Re: For Your Information
by Destral 2010-12-17, 01:45
Oh, he should be. That certain person is more than enough.
On that note, good luck!
On that note, good luck!
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 01:47
Heh, thanks. I'm not stressed, I've just predicted how I'm going to feel and how the day will go. But I'm like that though, the one factor I can predict is that person (who may not even show up, I dunno, it;ll be weird as hell if they do though)
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Re: For Your Information
by Leach54 2010-12-17, 01:56
Good luck! Break a leg! Have Fun!! Enjoy yourself! And most of all, be who you are.
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkjedi 2010-12-17, 02:18
Wow, DWs a big boy now!
I'm so happy, I might cry!
Oh, and have fun entertaining little miss sunshine. (Just don't think about how you appear, just focus on her, and then you can regret acting like an idiot later. Heck, that's what I do.)
I'm so happy, I might cry!
Oh, and have fun entertaining little miss sunshine. (Just don't think about how you appear, just focus on her, and then you can regret acting like an idiot later. Heck, that's what I do.)
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by leewatson1 2010-12-17, 09:47
Don't stare at the chest, it gets awkward trust me. 
Have fun mate, make lots of small talk and just try and be a good host make sure people are having a good time and you might end up having one.
Also where was my invite, i would fly out to yours just for a party
Have fun mate, make lots of small talk and just try and be a good host make sure people are having a good time and you might end up having one.
Also where was my invite, i would fly out to yours just for a party
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 10:34
Leach54 wrote:Good luck! Break a leg! Have Fun!! Enjoy yourself! And most of all, be who you are.
Umm, there's a contradiction, because being who I am requires me to not have fun and not enjoy myself.
Darkjedi wrote:Wow, DWs a big boy now!
I'm so happy, I might cry!
Oh, and have fun entertaining little miss sunshine. (Just don't think about how you appear, just focus on her, and then you can regret acting like an idiot later. Heck, that's what I do.)
Um...It's not quite like that
I suck at small talk. I'm actually surprised at how many people intend to show up, despite the fact it's non-alcoholic. And again, re the chest, it's not like thatleewatson1 wrote:Don't stare at the chest, it gets awkward trust me.
Have fun mate, make lots of small talk and just try and be a good host make sure people are having a good time and you might end up having one.
Also where was my invite, i would fly out to yours just for a party
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 10:48
Hey, I'm cold, objective and logical, so no, I don't think I've let shame pull me down, I mean, I did invite her after all
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Re: For Your Information
by Shemuel 2010-12-17, 11:59
OK then, sit in the corner like the emotionless freak you apparently are. You can't pick and choose when you have feelings.
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 12:01
I will be running the operation, so there's no sitting in a corner, I'll have tables to replenish and guests to greet and whatnot. It's going to be more work than anything for me, so my time is going to be quite occupied. And no, I'm not 100% emotionless, but it is quite a bit easier to chose when you feel than most people think
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkjedi 2010-12-17, 13:03
Actually, smaller groups would probably be better for you. Maybe just one on one.
I'm curious, what would you do if I came over? (if i actually lived in canada. otherwise, that would be just creepy)
I'm curious, what would you do if I came over? (if i actually lived in canada. otherwise, that would be just creepy)
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-17, 13:15
Darkjedi wrote:Actually, smaller groups would probably be better for you. Maybe just one on one.
I'm curious, what would you do if I came over? (if i actually lived in canada. otherwise, that would be just creepy)
Are you kidding, the larger the group the better. I don't experience stage fright usually and I always work better with a large group of people. Small, one on one, can't do, won't do!
And this is for the whole family too, we've all invited people we know
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Re: For Your Information
by leewatson1 2010-12-17, 18:10
Quagmire wrote:That one is also sexual, giggity giggity goo!
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-18, 01:33
Darkjedi wrote:I do one on one with you all of the time!
In text and with guys, it's not so difficult. I can't be in close proximity to girls though, I just feel awkward
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkjedi 2010-12-18, 01:49
Make yourself hang out with people in both large groups, and in small ones. Yes, it might not be that fun for you, but if you want to become more social, then it's something you have to do.
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkjedi 2010-12-18, 01:53
Your actions. (They talk a bit louder than words)
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-18, 01:56
Thanks for throwing a version of a Bible quote at me. See unlike most people, my words generally reflect my actions and as I stated before, basically, after this, no one can say I didn't try. I'm quite content with how I am with these matters, but it seems everyone else isn't, including you.
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Re: For Your Information
by Jtull 2010-12-18, 06:43
DW you could use my little trick....
Use a copy of a tv show character and use his traits to make yourself outgoing and then it will become habit.
Use a copy of a tv show character and use his traits to make yourself outgoing and then it will become habit.
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-18, 10:23
Again another person who isn't. Why must I conform to be like everyone else? And why is my way so wrong in everyone else's eyes?
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Re: For Your Information
by Leach54 2010-12-18, 14:43
I said be yourself for the record. If that means you cant have a good time then thats what it means. but you do not need to Try and be anyone else. Why should people try and be the same. In labs and in the wild if a population is bread to cut out the weakest traits and to be similar and strong the population ALWAYS dies out. There is need for you to try and be anyone else. And on another note it seems that this thread is becoming an argument and i dont see the point in arguing about a party none of us will be at (except for dw)
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Re: For Your Information
by Philly Homer 2010-12-18, 18:57
If he doesn't want to do something then who are we to make him do anything? He's basically politely telling you all to just fuck off. He can do whatever he wants.
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Re: For Your Information
by JPB18 2010-12-18, 19:01
Philly Homer wrote:If he doesn't want to do something then who are we to make him do anything? He's basically politely telling you all to just fuck off. He can do whatever he wants.
True... I'm now like... do whatever you want... I can't force neither you or anyone to change... so, everyone who's trying to change DW can go to a certain place I know
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Re: For Your Information
by Darkwing 2010-12-19, 01:35
Your ass crack?
On another note, it's over, not as many showed up as was expected, but that's all right. I'm quite tired but everyone seemed to enjoy it quite a bit, a traditional Christmas party isn't something most people do anymore these days and a party that you remember the next day is a rarity as well, so things were successful IMO
On another note, it's over, not as many showed up as was expected, but that's all right. I'm quite tired but everyone seemed to enjoy it quite a bit, a traditional Christmas party isn't something most people do anymore these days and a party that you remember the next day is a rarity as well, so things were successful IMO
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Re: For Your Information
by Leach54 2010-12-19, 03:11
Sometimes i wish people wear nice and friendly like in the old days. Back when people would invite someone over for dinner not because anything was going to happen, but because they wanted to see each other.
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Re: For Your Information
by Galaxy-Scarface 2010-12-19, 11:08
now they just text each other and act like that makes up for it(which it does not)
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Re: For Your Information
by Thingy 2010-12-19, 12:13
Leach54 wrote:Sometimes i wish people wear nice and friendly like in the old days. Back when people would invite someone over for dinner not because anything was going to happen, but because they wanted to see each other.
Still happens here in Egypt. I've only been here for 2 days, but i'm starting to see the difference between swedes and egyptians... Egyptians might have less knowledge, but swedes are just incredibly cold... And quite selfish.
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