I need all of your help on this one.

ok im doing this on behalf of a m8 of mine I need all of your unbiased opinions.
and mods when this poll expires in 5 days this topic is to be deleted when I have posted to do so.

ok right there is this girl I know and she is confused on wether she should stay in a relationship or wether to leave her BF. she just had a big fight with her BF and now they are on a break. the fight was about her at one point cheating on him about 11months ago and she promiced that she would never do it again but he still dont trust her. they have a had alot of fights before this.

I want you to think about and awnser this in all seriousnes. she already has my opinion so I wont be voting

leave... same question as MNIM

Once a relationship goes that wrong, it's hard to reverse the problems.

I dont know what she did to cheat on him. she has promiced me that she wont ever cheat on anyone again. she told that guy aswell.

she told me that she just kinda ran off with another guy.

Tell Beth what you were going to say to her

"Get in mah belly"

WTF!?

and I have put no names to this the girl in question asked me to get a very external opinion thats all im doing. the outcome of this poll I will tell her wether I think its the right thing to do or not.

yea be serious. this is someones relationship not a joke.

alka I mean the emotins involved in this relationship are very real. she is a m8 of mine it is my duty to help her. (oh and alka grow up some people fine the one for them at a young age.)

they have bein together for about 11 months I think. and alka

please dont smite me for this I have to do it.

alka: HOW CAN YOU BE SOO INSENSITIVE!!!!

I did give a serious response JTull.

Shemuel wrote:Once a relationship goes that wrong, it's hard to reverse the problems.

Just I gave a not so serious one as well.

Alka, to be fair, it is important to the people who are involved. Don't tell me you've never been in a relationship that means everything to you at the time. It may not mean much in a year, maybe a few months, but while it's happening it is almost everything. I mean Jtull is over-posting about this stuff, but only because he is infatuated over this one, even though something may well never happen.

thanks for that shem I only posted this because I need another opinion thats why I want this topic deleted after the poll is conclued.

and alka I know that me and her may not go out but she is still my close mate so I cant do nothing to help her.

Well I think the imput is emphatically is that you tell her to brak up for good.

But if hypothetically it was Beth we are talking about, I wouldn't because you would seem as if you were trying to muscle in on her.

I offered to help her she accepted. I offered to get a outside opinion she accepted that aswell she knows that I wont even make a move untill I know she is ready for another guy. she thinks of me as a close m8 all im doing is offering her my help. she knows I wouldent do anything to break them up because she wouldent forgive me.

split up

Depends on why she cheated, if it's because she just wanted to without any good reason, then she's a bi*** and should leave because their relationship is going to mess up later anyways, if she did it because he's an assh***, well, then she should leave because he's not going to change. I cant see their relationship lasting for very much longer anyways so she might just as well save the time and trouble and leave now.

from what I am told it was in the first weeks of there relationship. so it was just a minor slip up its the only time she has ever done something like that.

right that is what I wil tell her.
ill say this.

"******* I have asked some people and they all said that you should break up with ******."

oh good. now the problem is she has all this recommendations but she don't know what to do. with her relationship if they break up they never see each other again I mean never talk nothing just completely ended. and she is all mixed up you have helped her feel good about that people but the final decision is hers to make I am giving her every little peace of help I can give. and you have helped me do that for her. for those of you that are god fearing please pray for her. pray for guidance in this situation.

you know what I mean. please pray for her. thats all I ask of you.

why would i fear god anyway?oh right, the eternal damnation.bit harsh for just 1 sin.

you all know what I ment just can you please do it?

the only time i pray is when i hear that damned alarm.

come on guys please do this for her. I care about her but I can only give her advice god can sort everything out in her head. I want him to guide her to the right path.

ok so you nedd my help.lets see...should i go for dinner or read the newspaper?

alka its about what she wants to do. if that means she stays with reuben for longer then I will continue to wait for her. anyway I cant and dont want to control her life. we are close I want what will make her happy in the long run. if that means I never get to date her then so be it.

I pray for guidence for her not that she breaks up. she has told me many times that she just dosent know what to do I pray that God shows her what to do.

I trust God with every aspect of my life even my love life. he gave it to me I give it back to him to use it. she is my freind more than the girl I like.

um no.wrong part of town. and anyway we are just close m8s now im not going to get to date her.

add a shotgun to the front and you got an anti riot vehicle.

For some people.

You forgot about the army of feral dogs running behind too.

LOL, now we're talking about slightly more expensive bits of hardware.

Did DJ just hack time?