Re: Do you have a GF/BF

by Jerome Star 2008-11-25, 22:09

Alkanosis wrote:That's basically all we talk about in middle school nowadays. It's borderline pathetic, in my opinion. Middle school and high school are not supposed to be quasi-soap operas and I honestly wouldn't care to get involved. Honestly, 50% of all the 8th graders in my middle school are not virgins. Pathetic.

Agreed. It IS very pathetic. And because I got pulled into much gossip (people would gossip about me in middle school), I've always hated middle school. And high school really. Thank god I'm in college now, literally I do XD

Anyways, one reason why I won't read any high school fan fictions of Kingdom Hearts... Those to me make no sense and remind me of my terrible high school days... Which I don't want to look back on too much. Except for the parts where I hung out with some of my best friends. Once they started assigning uniforms and seating places during lunch, I ended up through one of the worst nightmares in my life... >>;

by Jtull 2008-11-25, 22:22

oh sad. what were the seating groups like?

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-26, 01:12

you're out of high school ,and you're only 15?!/!?!?

by Jtull 2008-11-26, 01:15

yea. well lets just say I did well in school

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-26, 01:17

but still, 15?!?!? what are you, einstein?

by Jtull 2008-11-26, 01:20

no the Dr

by Jerome Star 2008-11-26, 11:22

I dunno... No offense, JTull, but Spelling doesn't seem to be your strongsuit. I thought to pass a grade you had to have at most Spelling down along with most of the other subjects... Geez, their standards are getting low (again, that's not meant to be taken offensively, by the way)

Jtull, you're a smart dude. You'll figure things out then and I'm certain you won't screw up. Just keep your head about you! Basketball

by Insane Crayon 2008-11-26, 11:23

Yea, but Jtull does his best, I guess. As Jerome has already said, just keep your head about you, and you will do fine.

by Jerome Star 2008-11-26, 11:46

Yeah, just don't let her die of starvation XD Get her something good to eat, something she likes. But try and find common ground. It won't do any good for you NOT to be yourself. Girls will find that fake and turn away from you. So find things you both like to do.

Watch a movie someday too Wink

Actually, you probably should watch at least the first ten/fifteen minutes of the movie before you try making a move. My gf went to the theatre with me when we were still just friends and didn't expect anything from me until about a short ways into the movie XD You know, I forgot what we saw... Gonna have to email her and ask XD

And finally, aside from entertainment and stomach-satiation, remember to keep talking. Talk about her, learn more about her. When she wants to know something about you, she'll ask it. But every time there's a silent moment, talk about her. Find out more before you decide to make your relationship official. And I do suggest not kissing on the first date unless you're some kind of sports jock.

Really, the best way for us silent types to get a girlfriend is to let them first come to us, but we go to them first for FRIENDSHIP, not anything more. But soon after, if she's giving any signs or trying to tell you she wants it to be official, and you really really like her (beyond just physical of course), then you've found yourself a girl. Congrats. But yeah, don't refer to her as property, or as 'yours' unless she does. I say neither me or my gf are properties of the other, just that we're equal in our relationship ^^

by Insane Crayon 2008-11-26, 11:51

Jerome Star wrote:Yeah, just don't let her die of starvation XD Get her something good to eat, something she likes. But try and find common ground. It won't do any good for you NOT to be yourself. Girls will find that fake and turn away from you. So find things you both like to do.

Watch a movie someday too Actually, you probably should watch at least the first ten/fifteen minutes of the movie before you try making a move. My gf went to the theatre with me when we were still just friends and didn't expect anything from me until about a short ways into the movie XD You know, I forgot what we saw... Gonna have to email her and ask XD

And finally, aside from entertainment and stomach-satiation, remember to keep talking. Talk about her, learn more about her. When she wants to know something about you, she'll ask it. But every time there's a silent moment, talk about her. Find out more before you decide to make your relationship official. And I do suggest not kissing on the first date unless you're some kind of sports jock.

Really, the best way for us silent types to get a girlfriend is to let them first come to us, but we go to them first for FRIENDSHIP, not anything more. But soon after, if she's giving any signs or trying to tell you she wants it to be official, and you really really like her (beyond just physical of course), then you've found yourself a girl. Congrats. But yeah, don't refer to her as property, or as 'yours' unless she does. I say neither me or my gf are properties of the other, just that we're equal in our relationship ^^

Couldnt of said it better myself. But also, don't ask her about her personal life too much, or she might think your crazy/creepy. -Personal Experiences.....Some guys are just plain creepy. No offense Jtull-

by me naam is m 2008-11-26, 13:23

Terra Nova wrote: Couldnt of said it better myself. But also, don't ask her about her personal life too much, or she might think your crazy/creepy. -Personal Experiences.....Some guys are just plain creepy. No offense Jtull-

i thought about the same...

by Jtull 2008-11-26, 16:54

hey im not creepy. lol but the girl I realy like her BF hates me appaerntly its because he feels threatend. I will takea allyour advice. especialy terra. since your a girl. Cool

by me naam is m 2008-11-26, 18:18

Jtull wrote:hey im not creepy. lol but the girl I realy like her BF hates me appaerntly its because he feels threatend. I will takea allyour advice. especialy terra. since your a girl.

wise, very wise

by Jtull 2008-11-26, 18:24

well thats me. logic is how you use the facts. knowlage is knowing the facts. wisdom is understanding the facts. with all three you can solve almost everthing. but wit is just doing it anyway.

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-26, 23:35

jerome, you're one smart cookie! cookie

by Jtull 2008-11-27, 00:25

so thats what he looks like

by me naam is m 2008-11-27, 14:40

yeah lol, like one giant flash-programming, sparta shouting cookie

by Jtull 2008-11-27, 16:58

lol. oh and I just found out most of my m8s had there first kiss at 12. im nearly 16 and still havent had mine.

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-27, 17:06

good for you, i',m 18 never been kissed.

by Jtull 2008-11-27, 17:07

oh gutted. but one girl says she may give me mine for my 16th birthday. lol I want!!

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-27, 17:08

ok. well, just an observatioanl thing, why is this one of our most popular tpoics?

by Jtull 2008-11-27, 17:10

dunno? maybe because we are almost all teens. and girls are a big part of being an adolesant.

by **Darkwing** 2008-11-27, 17:11

you know what, i find this a realy bizarre thing to talk about on the net. I personally think this stuff should be left to personal conversations with your best friend. This is a flash gaming forum, not a dating forum.

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